Live mindfully, & Have no regrets
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Leave your past, your ancestors and family habits behind: Live your OWN DESTINY!!
"Do not fear to be
eccentric in opinion,
for every opinion now
accepted was once eccentric."
Bertrand Russell
3 Deepest Regrets at the final stage of life: Hospice.
1.) Working really hard long hours accomplished few lasting rewards, beside a paycheck. Common comments: "I regret doing what others expected of me and not living a life true to myself and following what I love. I regret allowing my earlier education and a secure job to entrap me. I regret working so hard for approval and rewards from others. They really didn't care about me or matter now."
"You can end half
your troubles
immediately by no
longer permitting
people to tell you
what you want."
Vernon Howard
INSIGHT: "Working hard" means doing a job you don't like-usually for money. The effort it takes to continue working for a paycheck builds resentment, judgment and blame. That continual stress dampens life down to mediocre. "Tolerating" spills over - and kills enjoyment in other areas of life too. The stress eventually results in dis-ease - and then choices are no longer available. Once health is gone, so are options.
SOLUTION: Passionately doing what you love - enlivens and enriches your life. Time spent is not wasted nor regretted later.
"An undisciplined mind
leaks vital energy in a
continuous stream of
thoughts, worries, and
skewed perceptions,
many of which trigger
disturbing emotions and
degenerative chemical
processes in the body."
Connie Grauds, RPh
2.) Most did not find happness: Thoughts are commonly about 70% negative and redundant old habits - until new choices are made. Most regretted how little of their life was happy. Common comments: "I seldom vacationed or played just for the fun of it-even with my kids and pets. I seldom laughed and I regret not expressing my feelings honestly; and pretending to get along and not 'rock the boat.'"
"Is it not strange
that we fear most
that which
never happens?"
Napoleon Hill
INSIGHT: The fear of change and losing what you have accumulated often leads to the self-deception that "I'm content," when you are not. Living a lie is deadly - it kills relationships quick. Not being honest with yourself means you cannot be honest with others. Open honest communication is the foundation of working with others - especially true of a mate and companion. The stress builds until an illness or erupting anger changes everything -for the worse.
SOLUTION: Choose to be happy and insist on it. Ignore what you do not like and give what you love your full attention. Speak your truth honestly about how you feel. Those that cannot live with your authentic self are no loss to your well-being.
"Some day the
medical profession
will wake up
and realize that
unresolved emotional
issues are the main
cause of 85% of
all illnesses.
When they do,
EFT will be one of
their primary
healing tools
.... as it is for me."
Eric Robins, MD
3.) Making a living, and not relationships, is of primary importance in many cultures. Common comments: "I regret not enjoying my kids and spending time with my whole family. I regret not maintaining my friendships and activities. I wish I had stayed in touch with my older friends through the years."
"Not doing what
your heart desires
is like having a
"near life" experience."
Bob Luckin
INSIGHT: Once caught up in your own busy life, it is easy to let friendships slip away. If living is more "tolerating" than enjoyment - there is not much energy or interest in spending time in activities with others. Movies and TV are escape - not relating. At the end of life - nothing matters more than loving relationships.
SOLUTION: Relationships are a choice you make by setting priorities and spending time with others -- and sharing in their lives. Most were taught to "get the job done first" and play later...yet playtime seldom arrives. Make a plan and set time aside for friends and family daily. Your happiness depends on your relations with others - from family to work to activities.
"Laughter is prayer. If you can laugh you have learnt how to pray. Don't be serious; a serious person can never be religious. Only a person who can laugh, not only at others but at himself also, can be religious. A person who can laugh absolutely, who sees the whole ridiculousness and the whole game of life, becomes enlightened in that laughter." OSHO
Living the Dream
At the end of life - it is not money and status that made life worth living, but the moments spent with loved ones and accomplishing your own personal dream. Why not live that life now and avoid regrets later?
The most common regrets -- "...not living my life in my own way." That also meant: "....not having the courage to be me and share how I feel; and not maintaining loving, happy relationships."
"Be awake to
the fact that within
the Way there always
exists two paths, the
path of what is and the
path of what can be.
Through the choices
you make and the actions
you take, you can travel
the path or not.
It is up to you."
Stuart Avery Gold, "ping"
Life is a series of choices and it is YOUR life to choose what feels right to you. It is a choice to be mindful and to choose wisely, choose honestly from your heart, and to choose happiness.
"A good system
shortens the road
to the goal."
Orison Swett Marden
Design a Plan
Make many small changes in your daily habits - and begin new routines. It won't be long before you are living more genuinely and authentically YOU. The real you. Your destiny - and not the plan from prior generations. And on your death bed - you will be at peace and happy - ready to begin a new adventure. No regrets, no sadness. Living a life of Good Fortune assures a happy ending.
Good Fortune,
Cheryl Janecky
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3.) Making a living, and not relationships, is of primary importance in many cultures. Common comments: "I regret not enjoying my kids and spending time with my whole family. I regret not maintaining my friendships and activities. I wish I had stayed in touch with my older friends through the years." 
